The SPPOAC Legislative Team with Lt. Governor Leo McCarthy: (l to r) Mike Lynch, Vic Trevisanut, McCarthy, Lisa Beutler, and Mario Rodriguez |
I usually
remember most things—especially meeting iconic people—but I cannot remember meeting
Vic Trevisanut. That is why it is ironic
that he takes residence inside my important memories of the 1980’s, when I was a
young, idealistic girl who wanted to change the world. Vic was a State Park Ranger and union
organizer—a personal friend and colleague of my roommate, Lisa Beutler. They had the same birthday, and worked
together to organize SPPOAC (State Park Peace Officer’s Association of
California). Vic and Lisa also had a close friend whose name was Mario, who I
would later work for, fall in love with, and marry. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves.
In 1982,
Lisa B. and I worked for the Lieutenant Governor, Leo McCarthy. Lisa was a consultant with her finger on the
pulse of the Law Enforcement community and women’s groups—making her invaluable
to the office. I was an accounts payable
clerk, thanks to Lisa, who recommended me for the job. It was my first time in the big city of
Sacramento—I came from the small town of Tracy—and most of the time I went to
work bubbling over with enthusiasm and gratitude. Because Lisa and I shared a house, many times
I got to hang out with her legislative/law enforcement friends simply because I
was around. It was a wonderful time in
my life, being part of an eclectic crowd that included peace officers (mostly
rangers), legislative analysts, lawyers, and lobbyists. Inside of this think tank was Vic Trevisanut.
Vic
seemed to know every legislative bill coming through the California Assembly,
especially if it affected law enforcement agencies or their budget. He worked full-time as a State Park Ranger,
but he also gave a lot of hours to the ranger’s union afterward.
“So, how
do you know Lisa?” Vic once asked me.
“I used
to work with her,” I answered. “I was a
park aid at the same place where she was a ranger.”
Vic
nodded as if he understood, and turned to Lisa.
“Hey LB! You brought your Park
Aid to Sacramento so that she could be your private secretary?”
Lisa
shrugged. “Doesn’t everybody?”
Vic was
always making jokes—often about himself—and I liked him. He made us all laugh, even during intense
conversations about legal issues pressing down on the law enforcement
community. That’s how I remembered him.
Fast forward
five years, and I was back in Tracy trying to start my life over, with a new
baby. The relationship with the baby’s father
ended disastrously, and I was devastated. I reconnected with Lisa one day, over the
phone, and she encouraged me to go get my old job back—at the same State Park
where we met.
“You
know who is supervising that park now?
Mario! You remember him.”
“Kind
of,” I answered. Mario, Lisa, their friend, Bartlett, and I shared a dinner
together after the Lieutenant Governor’s inaugural. But Mario was Lisa’s friend, not mine.
“Go back
to Carnegie and apply,” she said. “Tell
them how good you are—or better yet, show them.”
I
did. In my interview, I convinced the
new staff that I could do the job better than anyone else. I also mentioned that I knew Mario and
Lisa. I was rehired, but when Mario— my
boss—returned from an extended vacation, he neither remembered me from the legislative
crowd in Sacramento, nor approved of my swift re-hire.
“You
were hired illegally,” he told me when he first met me in the kiosk. “We’re supposed to hire only AFDC recipients.”
“I need
this job, please,” I pleaded. “I have a
baby and I need to work to support him.”
He
thought about this for a moment, and then, straight-faced and through his
mirrored sunglasses said: “You’re out of uniform. You need a black belt.”
I was
able to keep my job, but Mario proved to be a silent and distant employer, compared
to the other rangers who had supervised me in the past. I felt like I was always trying to prove my
merit around him. It wasn’t until Vic
called that things changed.
I was
sitting in the main office one weekday afternoon when the phone rang. I answered it, and a man asked for Mario.
“It’s
his day off,” I told him. “Can I take a
message?”
“Yeah, just
tell him that Vic called.”
I
grabbed a message pad (fifty points if you remember those) and wrote it
down. “Alright, Vic, I’ll have him call
you back? Why not give me your last name
just in case.”
“I’ll
spell it,” Vic said. “Because no one ever gets it right. It’s T-R-E-V-I…”
“Is this
Vic Trevisanut? Vic?”
“Yeah…”
Vic sounded nonplussed on the other end.
“This is
Janet, I don’t know if you remember me.
I am Lisa’s friend, her roommate from Sacramento…”
Vic
suddenly became animated. “Janet! The
park aid that came with her to Sacramento? How are you?”
“I’m
good,” I answered. This was only
half-true. I was alive. I had a job and a
healthy new baby, but I was a city hollowed out from a bomb blast. I had extremely low self-esteem. “How are you?”
“Yeah,
listen, Janet. You need to get Mario to campaign
for this guy in Daly City who’s running for state assembly. His name is Mike Nevin; he’s a good guy—really
important to Law Enforcement. Just give
me Mario’s number—I lost it somehow.”
I
thought for a second. Giving out peace
officer’s phone numbers is strictly forbidden—I was trained to never do
this. It was hammered home several times;
a violation of this might mean losing my job.
I needed my job.
“I know
you’re not supposed to,” Vic said, reading my mind. “But you know me and you know that Mario and I
are friends, right?”
I did
know Vic—and I knew he was friends with Mario.
Vic was also a Ranger. I knew that I wasn’t supposed to, but gave Vic
Mario’s phone number anyway.
“Don’t
worry, Janet,” Vic said, laughing. “I promise
I won’t tell him you gave me his number—but on one condition. You have to convince him that he needs to
campaign for Nevin. And you need to
come, too, alright?”
“Alright,”
I agreed. I was no stranger to campaigns,
and I relished the thought of reconnecting with the crowd I once knew. I smiled as I said goodbye.
Five
minutes later, Mario called the office.
“Janet,
this is Mario. I just talked to Vic
Trevisanut. He told me you gave him my
phone number. I’m pretty sure you have
been briefed about this.”
I
froze. I had the sudden urge to release
my entire bladder.
“In this
case it’s alright, Janet,” Mario continued.
My heart started to beat again and I almost relaxed. “I know Vic, and we’re friends, but I am a sworn
peace officer and you are not supposed to give out private phone numbers to
anyone, even if they say they know me.
Do you understand?”
“Yes,
sir,” I said. “I’m sorry. I know Vic from Sacramento…”
“Yeah,
that’s what he said. He also said that
you were going to help the union by canvassing neighborhoods in Daly City. He told me that you suggested I be a part of
this?”
I shook
my head. Vic was known for assembling an
army on short notice using any means necessary.
“Umm… he asked me to ask you.”
“Alright,”
Mario said. He seemed to be putting
things together. “I guess I’ll call him back and tell him that I can’t be part
of this. You can do this, but I have too
much on my plate right now.”
“Okay.”
“Okay.”
He hung
up; I was pretty sure I was in trouble.
Five
minutes later Mario called back. After
pleasantries he sighed. “You know, Daly City is pretty nice this time of year.”
We both
laughed. Vic had talked him into it.
The
canvas was well-planned; it was still hard work. Mario and I covered several neighborhoods
together, delivering small house plants to supporters of Nevin. “Thank you for your support,” I would say,
handing a potted plant to a pleasantly surprised constituent. After a long day of scaling stairs up and
down steep hillsides in Daly City, we were exhausted.
And
hungry.
The
after-party was at a fancy banquet hall, where a campaign fundraiser was being
held for the candidate. The cost of one
plate for the deluxe buffet was ridiculously expensive, but the volunteers were
given an appreciation plate. Vic, Mario,
and I (like everyone else who worked the campaign) were given small plates, about
the size of our hands.
“What
the hell is this?” we asked each other, comparing our little saucers to the
normal-sized dinner plates on the donors’ tables. We were granted as many trips to the buffet
as we desired and we definitely made use of this. I made three trips to the sumptuous buffet,
shamelessly mowing down food. Vic and
Mario made several more, all as we relaxed at a comfortable table of eight and
caught up like old friends.
I looked
up to see Pat Johnston, San Joaquin County’s Assemblyman, walk in and start greeting
people. I gasped.
“Look,
guys!” I whispered to Mario and
Vic. “There’s Pat Johnston!”
“Yeah?”
Vic asked, as if I was overreacting.
“He’s
our assemblyman! He’s a wonderful
representative!”
“Do you
want to meet him?” Vic asked. “It looks
like he’s making his way around the room.”
Before I
knew it, I was shaking hands with Pat Johnston, smiling and gushing about how I
thought he was doing such a good job for our district.
“You
were actually the first person I ever voted for,” I told him, beaming with
unashamed admiration. “I turned eighteen
and voted for you as an assemblyman!”
“Thank
you,” he said, graciously. He wore an
expression of guarded confusion, as if he wasn’t used to such attention by
smiling young women. It was then, over
his shoulder I saw Vic and Mario looking at me.
I could tell that something was wrong by their expressions—like football
coaches when a quarterback throws an interception. It was Mario who pulled me out of the game.
Without
even thinking of its effect or awkwardness, Mario interrupted my gushing
admiration by whispering loudly in my ear: “You have a big green piece of
something stuck between your teeth.”
I froze. In that moment, I imagined that I could see
it, sticking out of my teeth like an olive tree on the side of a cliff.
Without
so much as “Oh, please excuse me,” I sat down and dove into my purse for my
mirror. By the time I had pulled it out,
I had run my tongue over my teeth at least five times. When I opened my mirror and smiled, it was
gone. When I looked up, so was Pat
Johnston. I had never before been so
embarrassed…and I do embarrassing stuff all the time.
Mario
and Vic came up to me, trying to suppress their laughter.
“That
was the biggest piece of greenery in between someone’s teeth I have ever seen
in my life!” Mario said—pity mixed with admiration.
“Yeah,”
Vic agreed eagerly. “It was there for ten or twelve smiles!”
I
couldn’t help laughing. It was so
embarrassing, but Mario and Vic now were having a good laugh. Throughout the campaign—which Nevin did not
win—I was sentenced to be part of an embarrassing story that Vic retold to anyone
who met me.
Vic
recruited, but also united, Mario and I to the Nevin campaign—and others after
that. On the trail, I fell in love with
Mario. Once outside the office, I saw
him as a person, not just a boss. He eventually
saw the same humanity in me. We were destined
to be a couple.
Sue
Trevisanut, Vic’s wife, was also a person who told good stories. Their tales were about normal happenings, but
were transformed into extraordinary events simply because of the way they
retold them. One story I remember was about
the fate of their family pet—a rabbit.
“The
rabbit was old,” Vic told Mario. “It was
time for her to go and so…” He made a motion of a quick cut across the
neck. The gesture made me laugh—I
thought he was joking. “So Sue made a
big, beautiful stew!”
Sue was
laughing as he told this, but also shaking her head. “The kids came home from school,” she said.
“And
they figured it out!” Vic leaned forward to punctuate his surprise. “My
daughter came right out and asked us, where’s the rabbit? That’s her, isn’t
it?”
“None of
us ate the stew,” Sue laughed. “We had
to throw it out.”
Remembering the story through
the week made me break out in laughter.
Last
week we got an email telling us that Vic had died. He had been living in Missouri and had remarried.
His beloved Sue had died before him and their
children were all grown with children of their own. It made Mario and I shake
our heads in disbelief—and think of how fast time passes when it comes to friends
and memories. I recount all of this as if
it happened last week, but when I look at pictures of us back then, Mario has
light brown hair and I have big 80’s patterns in my dresses. We were so young when we socialized with Vic and
Sue—and now we have grown to be a couple of our age, wondering where the time has
gone. On his obituary page, fellow rangers
share stories like this one and memories they shared with him. We even saw a message from Vic’s daughter
(maybe the one who called him on cooking the family rabbit), a heart-felt
thanks to the people who were sharing.
It made Mario and I remember how Vic was so important in the formation
of our relationship—even in our lives.
He was a man who meant so much to so many people.
To me,
he will always be the guy out in front, bringing everyone together, with that
infectious smile on his face and a great story to tell. If you are going to make friends, make sure they
are stand-up fellows whose memories endure the test of time.
Like Vic.
Vic’s obituary
can be accessed here for the next few days:
https://www.charterfunerals.com/Obituary/2018/01/02/Victor+Raymond+Trevisanut+III
https://www.charterfunerals.com/Obituary/2018/01/02/Victor+Raymond+Trevisanut+III
Thank you for this wonderful story. It brought back joyful memories of deep friendships and hard fought battles. I will also follow you advice to make friends, and make sure they are stand-up fellows/fellas whose memories endure the test of time. So far so go.
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